Sex Advice with Cyd 

Anonymous  asked:

How much does size matter to you? I am 5" in length with 5" of girth and insecure about topping with my size. Could a guy my size make you squirt? And a side note: I love watching you squirt and you made me realize that I love trans men as much as I love cis men (as people, of course, not just sexual objects or anything).

ftmfags  answered:

I love that I was part of broadening your sexual understanding of your desires!  And squirting is totally awesome, I love doing it and it’s so fucking hot to spray my cum all over someones face or chest or cock.

Now to your question - to be totally honest I don’t squirt from PIV sex with most people.  It isn’t necessarily about size but rather the shape of the cock.  The sexual partner I squirt with the most has a rather short cock but he has a condition that makes his cock curl back on itself so it looks kind of like a ‘come hither’ finger - does that make sense?  Its the pressure on my g spot that makes me squirt - not being super filled up.  In fact being super filled can make it difficult to squirt.  Like my body will produce ejaculatory fluid when someone is fisting me, but unless they pull their fist out it won’t be released.

Another thing I want to say is there is no cock size that works for everyone.  People act as if vaginas are these cavernous openings that with enough lube will fit anything (and while due to baby birth that may be technically true) it’s actually not true about having a good time.  Some peoples vaginas are long, some are short, some are wider, some are really tight.  And thats not mainly because of how much they are used, but rather like with people with penis’s just something they are kind of born with.  For some trans guys your 5″ dick is gonna feel huge, for some not.

For me, I’ve had pleasurable kinds of sex with people with all kinds of dick size because we just do positions and also do things that work for how our bodies match.  I think also it’s important for people with penis’ to remember DICKS ARE NOT THE ONLY WAY TO TOP.  I don’t care the size of my partners dick - if you wanna be giving me a totally explosive time I want you to be using your hands, toys, cucumbers 😉 whatever the fuck.  Penis in vagina sex is just one stop in the sexual range of possibilities - it’s a great one, but if you are feeling insecure about your dick size well then make sure your the best hand fucker around

 

Greedy Whore Life

I saw a really hot client - one of those sessions I just love where we start by talking, almost like we met in a bar and are getting to know each other.  When the chemistry was just right I slid into his lap and started making out with him then after lots of licking, sucking and grinding we fucked on his bed.

Afterwards my body was just so wound up.  I started driving the long way home but I just couldn't concentrate on anything but the need for my hole to be filled again.  I unzip my pants and start playing with my dick.  My backpack is right next to me on the passenger side, I slid my hand in and pulled out this thick, metal dildo out of the bag.  The highway is pretty empty, it's late at night but I still have to be careful.   I put the car in cruise control and keep my eyes dead set on the road, but use one hand to pull my pants down more.

I slide my underwear to the side and press the cold metal against my hole and it slides right in, I'm so wet and greedy.  I push it into me almost to the point of discomfort and grind against it, both hands on the wheel.  I'm getting hot and bothered and looking at exits, wondering if I should pull off but I just keep it inside me, and start using one hand to ram it in and out of my hole.  Because my brain is so focused on driving it feels like a totally different sexual experience, the need to concentrate versus the hard pressure of the metal slamming into my hole.   I start breathing and gasping FUCK FUCK FUCK and I know I have to stop.  I take my hands off it, kick off cruise control and drive the 20 minutes remaining home.  Wondering what would happen if I happened to get pulled over.

With that thought in mind, I pulled into my parking spot at home, parked, pushed back the seat and let myself have it.  Fucking myself so hard I couldn't breathe in my dark car parked on a quiet country street.  Hottest jerk off session I've had in a long time.